Thursday, April 2, 2020

Lesson 8: Weakness is Your Strong Suit---8.2 The Hurricane and the Stroke


            Living in Florida, hurricanes are just a part of life.  In the nearly three decades I have lived in the Sunshine State, I have been directly impacted by at least five hurricanes not to mention numerous tropical storms and depressions.  While Hurricane Wilma did the most damage in my immediate area, the most memorable for me personally was Hurricane Jeanne. It was September 2004 and everyone was a bit on edge because our area had just been hit with Hurricane Frances at the beginning of the month.[1] Thursday night before the storm was supposed to hit over the weekend, I was on my way from the parking lot to the Florida Atlantic University library for a class in my library science master’s degree program.  I had my car keys in my left hand, and I just dropped them.  I picked them up and put them back in my left hand and I dropped them again.  It seemed odd but I did not pay it much attention.  The next day (which happened to be my birthday) at work, I noticed my left hand seemed numb which made it hard to type on my computer but I was mostly focused on the impending storm.  Saturday, I did all my hurricane preparations and moved with my Aunt and Uncle to my mom’s house to ride out the storm.  Jeanne hit on Sunday and we were fortunate to come out of it relatively unscathed.  
            Monday morning, I noticed that my left hand was completely paralyzed.  I could not even tie my shoes.  Mom had missed the storm as she was visiting her cousin in South Carolina.  I did not want to worry my elderly Aunt and Uncle, so I just let them drive me home and did not mention the situation with my hand.  Once I got home, I called my doctor to see if I could get an appointment.  The doctor was out of town but his nurse said I really should go to the emergency room.  I hung up and was on the verge of tears because I had no idea how I would get to the hospital as I knew I could not drive with only one functioning hand.  Just a minute or two later, I got a call from my friend, Kristine.  She was just calling to check up on me to see how I had fared during the storm.  I tearfully explained my situation and she dropped everything to give me a ride to the hospital.
            It turned out I had had a stroke.  I was totally surprised because I thought strokes happened suddenly.  One of the nurses explained that while the stroke itself does happen in an instant, the manifestations of the stroke can appear gradually as mine had done.  My stroke was not due to any of the usual causes of stroke, it happened because I had a hole in my heart known as patent foramen ovale (PFO). Today PFOs are usually discovered shortly after birth, but adults often only discover this condition after they have had a stroke.
            The next weeks and months provided another opportunity to remember that weakness is my strong suit.  I spent 10 days in the hospital trying to get my blood thin enough to go home.  When I went back to work, I had to depend on friends and family to drive me as my hand was still paralyzed.  Many people were praying for me and God answered their prayer by restoring the use of my hand amazingly fast.  My physical therapist was astonished.  About six months later, I underwent a procedure to have the hole in my heart closed.  Now by the grace of God, I have less risk of having another stroke than the average American.
            Problems like hurricanes and stokes come into all our lives.  In these cases, I could not prevent catastrophe from heading my way, though at least for the hurricane, I could prepare in advance.   There is a promise in the Bible that never makes it into those encouraging little devotional books of God’s promises: “In this world you will have trouble…”  (John 16:33b, NIV) It is a distinctively American delusion, taught by many prosperity preachers, that God wants you to be healthy, wealthy and problem free.  He promises trouble but as the rest of the verse reminds us, Jesus gives us strength to prevail over our problems: “But take heart! I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33c, NIV) I haven’t quite made it there yet, but in the advanced class on suffering you can actually learn to rejoice in trials:

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because He has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with His love. (Romans 5:3-5, NLT)

My good friend, Lois Daley, is one of the best examples of weakness being a strong suit.  In the almost twenty years I have known Lois she has had a wide variety of health problems.  She has been to the Cleveland Clinic so many times, I think she is on a first name basis with all the doctors and other medical personnel there.  About 10 years ago, she had a malignant tumor that was bigger than her head.  God completely healed her of this tumor—even her surprised doctors called it a miracle.  These days she is in almost constant pain but instead of being discouraged Lois has relied on God and seen her faith grow.  She has often told me: “I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” (Romans 8:18, NKJV) Lois treats her many hospital stays as trips to her personal mission field.  She visits the other patients on her floor to encourage them, pray for them and sometimes introduce them to Jesus.  As long as I have known Lois, I can say she has truly lived out her life verse which is “For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21, KJV)

Learning the Lesson: 

Meditate on the following passage then answer the questions below:

Have you never heard? Have you never understood? The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of all the earth. He never grows weak or weary. No one can measure the depths of His understanding. He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless. Even youths will become weak and tired, and young men will fall in exhaustion. But those who trust in the Lord will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint. (Isaiah 40:28-31, NLT)
           
  • v  How is God described in these verses?



  • v  What does He give to the weak and the powerless?



  • v  What will happen to those who trust in Him?



  • v  How can you rely on God’s strength today?




[1] In fact, Hurricanes Frances and Jeanne were eerily similar.  According to Wikipedia, “Jeanne made landfall later in the day in Florida just 2 miles (3 kilometers) from where Frances had struck a mere 3 weeks earlier”.


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